Oh my word. My stepbrother Fool's girl thang has been emailing my mom. Apparently Mom and John sent Fool J a book as a birthday present, but the jail wouldn't let it be delivered because it included a CD or some nonsense, so the girl thang got in contact about having it sent to her. So she asked Mom: "Are there any things that stand out in your mind about him when he was younger? What was he like?" Mom diplomatically refrained from responding to that. I'm afraid she's always thought the kid was a bit hideous, so the girl's way off base if she's looking for shiny, fluffy memories.